7 Reasons Couples Are Getting All Three “& Us” Books Instead of Just One
By Claire Bennett
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— a Reddit post about an ordinary weeknight

One page from each book
Three books. Three kinds of night.
Here’s a taste of each one, straight from the pages.
Games & Us
How Well Do You Know Me?
- Player 1 vs Player 2.
- Guess what your partner answered.
- Points for every match.
Compete
Choices & Us
Guess My Pick
- Would you rather relive the year you met, or jump ahead five years?
- Write your guess first.
- 1 point if you’re right.
Laugh
Dates & Us
The Old Photo Night
- Pull out every old photo box you can find.
- Take turns telling the story nobody else knows.
- Put the one you both love where you’ll see it.
Go do it
What’s in the box
Three 8 × 10 inch softcovers from the same series. Same look, three different nights.
A taste of all three
Two from each book.
Games & Us
The Mystery Cipher
Decode the phrase before the two minutes run out.
First to crack it takes the points.
Games & Us
The Scavenger Duel
Two minutes. Find three things around the house before your partner does.
Loser pays in compliments.
Choices & Us
Guess My Pick
Would you rather give up your phone for a monthORgive up your car for a month?
Guess first. Then ask.
Choices & Us
Speed Round
Coffee or tea. Beach or mountains. Save or spend. Twelve of these, one minute, no thinking.
Match 8 for bonus points.
Dates & Us
Slow Dance in the Kitchen
1. Make a playlist of songs from the year you met.
2. Turn the lights down and push a chair out of the way.
3. Dance. Nobody’s watching, so it doesn’t matter how.
Then fill in the album page.
Dates & Us
Coin-Flip Drive
1. Get in the car with a coin and no plan.
2. At every big turn, flip it. Heads, go left. Tails, go right.
3. After 30 minutes, stop and eat at the first place you see.
The passenger flips. The driver obeys.
Every kind of couple. Every kind of night.

Kitchen table, Tuesday

Long-distance, same page

Twenty years married

First apartment

Grandparents’ rematch

Road trip, back seat
Three books. Pick by the night.
| Games & Us | Choices & Us | Dates & Us | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Best for | Competitive nights | Couch nights | Weekends |
| How you play | 1 vs 1 challenges | Would you rather, then guess their pick | Go do the date, then fill in the album |
| Who wins | A winner every time | Keep score, or don’t | Nobody. You’re a team |
| What’s left after | The scores, in both your handwriting | Every tick and every wrong guess | A photo album of your year |
The Trio By The Numbers
Pick the Book by the Night
Ten minutes after dinner
Grab Choices & Us and do a speed round before the dishes.
- Twelve quick pairs
- One minute
- No thinking
Feeling competitive
Grab Games & Us. Somebody wins, somebody pays up.
- Points on the line
- A winner every time
- The loser pays in compliments
A free Saturday
Grab Dates & Us and flip until one of you says “that one.”
- Three easy steps
- Most are free
- Album page after
A rainy weekend
Plenty of the dates happen at home.
- Restaurant at Home
- The Jigsaw Night
- Backyard Campout, in the living room
A long drive
The passenger reads Choices & Us out loud.
- The Getaways round
- The Throwback round
- Guess My Pick at every rest stop
A gift
All three, one box, one present.
- Anniversaries
- Birthdays
- Valentine’s and the holidays
It’s not the books. It’s the nights.

Two Phones, One Couch
Nothing’s wrong. The nights just stopped being together.

Somebody Wins
Games keeps score. So does Choices, if you want it to.

The “Why”
Every pick in Choices comes with a reason. That’s the good part.

One Box
Three books, one gift, one $4.95 shipping fee.

Dark at Five
Plenty to do at home when it’s cold out.

Your Handwriting
Scores, ticks and photos. Three books that fill up with the two of you.
Try all three. If they don’t earn a spot on your coffee table, we refund them.
Email us within 30 days for a full refund. Keep the books.
Everything Couples Ask Before They Order
Straight answers — starting with the question everyone actually has.
What’s in the Us Trio? +
Why get all three? +
Do they ship together? +
Do we have to use them in order? +
Is any of it advice or therapy? +
Is any of it explicit? +
What do we need? +
Is it a good gift? +
How long does shipping take? +
What’s the guarantee? +
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